It seems that overnight, I have changed from a carefree young man to a mature man who has experienced the vicissitudes of life. Looking back on the days and nights of my mother's cancer in the past two months, I learned for the first time in my life what it means to be a child, the first time I felt the pressure of economy and the hardship of life, and the first time I realized the meaning of life.
My name is Li Yabin. I live at 208 Baomiao Village, Jiaxian County, Shangqiu City. Life is not so rich and expensive, but small life is also prosperous. My mother Wang is happy and kind-hearted, loving, and lives as happily as her name. Until the stomachache was so unbearable that she had to go to the hospital to relieve the pain, she told us that there was a big pimple on her abdomen, but she kept it a secret from us all the time. After learning that my wife and I hurriedly took my mother to the local hospital for examination, holding a report form after report, I became at a loss. The doctor whispered to me that my mother's condition was very much like a malignant tumor. I was so frightened by the sudden diagnosis that I was unwilling and afraid to accept it. The next day, the mother made an immunohistochemical and pathological diagnosis under the arrangement of the doctor. In the end, a "verdict" announced that the mother was diagnosed with a malignant tumor, occupying multiple spaces in the abdominal cavity and pelvis, with large ones as big as fists and many small ones.As a son, I looked at my mother with mixed feelings. I have a family, my mother finally does not have to worry about me, but I know that she has been silently behind me, I looked at her, my vision gradually blurred, I was afraid that she would leave me like this, and I did not come and love her well and even say that I love her. After a sleepwalking day, I told myself that I have to carry everything I say in this family, I want to save my mother, every second is the passage of life, and I want to seize every second of life.The whole family began to frantically look for a cure. Uncle Wang in the same village told me that there was a hospital in Jiaozuo, a specialized hospital specializing in traditional Chinese medicine to treat cancer. Last year, he was treated there and suggested that I take my mother there to have a try.When I heard the news, I took my mother to Jiaozuo and found what Uncle Wang called Jiaozuo Zhonghai traditional Chinese Medicine Cancer Hospital. Also saw countless cases of rehabilitation patients, and finally saw a glimmer of hope. In view of my mother's illness, Director Zhang Zhonghai and the expert group put forward a plan for the treatment of traditional Chinese medicine, telling our family members that they must have firm faith and the courage to overcome the disease. Hearing these words, I also silently prayed in my heart, hoping to contain the disease. I hope my mother's body can get better soon.Since my mother fell ill, I have not slept well every night. In order to make my mother sleep comfortably, I will feed my mother medicine, comb my hair and wash my feet every day, hoping to be more filial and spend more time with my mother. More than a month has passed, and before that, my mother, who had to rely on transfusion of nutrients to maintain her body, now has a good appetite, a large appetite, a strong body, and a person's spirit. The stomachache is not so bad, the bloating has disappeared bit by bit before, and the stool is normal. Finally, Huangtian lived up to the painstaking efforts, and that day my mother excitedly told her family that she had recovered from her illness and that the lump in her abdomen could not be touched. Seeing a smile on my mother's face again, this is my happiest moment!
